A slew of experts stepped in to help American couples strengthen their unions — and with some interesting suggestions.
These experts, however, weren’t necessarily trained therapists or even anyone who had anything to do with psychology. He was incredibly well-known and established one of America’s first marriage counseling centers in the 1930s, made regular media appearances and contributed to Emily Mudd, for instance, outlined the many roles that women had to assume when they became wives.
She approvingly quoted a “modern and prominent wife” who explained “To be a successful wife is a career in itself, requiring among other things, the qualities of a diplomat, a businesswoman, a good cook, a trained nurse, a schoolteacher, a politician and a glamour girl.”in 1953.
She laid out a variety of suggestions and cited personal examples.
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However apples and pears should be approached with caution, because ‘fruit causes some embarrassment.’ 'The rules of correct procedure vary,' the magazine warned.
Yes, in this case, “old-fashioned” is an epic understatement for just how ridiculous the advice in ladies journals of the time was.
Skyrocketing rates sent many couples to seek expert advice to bolster their marriages.
were rising by the end of World War II, so were fears over the state of marriage and family life.
During this time, the idea that marriage could be saved — and a divorce prevented — with enough work gained ground, according to Kristin Celello, assistant professor of history at Queens College, City University of New York, in her fascinating book .